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These rules came from mistakes made and lessons learned. Now, I didn't just make up these rules: they came from mistakes made and lessons learned. No matter how great he sounds, insist on meeting in public for your initial meeting, and even your second or third meeting.
I have met my share of men that I initially met online, and I have developed a few rules that I follow when it comes to meeting in person. This is number one since I cannot stress it enough.
What the hell are you supposed to say about yourself in your profile? [pagebreak] OUT-OF-TOWN AND OUT OF TOUCH The scenario: “A guy sent me a message saying that he wanted to meet up for a drink, but when I asked when he was free, he said he was ‘going out of town’ for the next two weeks and that we should schedule something after.” — Andrea, 31 The problem..the solution: If you tell a girl you’re “going out of town,” she’s going to assume you’re busy dating other women.
There’s obviously a reason she didn’t think it would work out, so why keep trying to pursue someone who is clearly not interested in you?
Pick a place you are familiar with in a well-traveled neighborhood or place, like a mall, so if there is a problem, there are a lot of people around and you can get home safely.
You can always ask a friend to come with you and sit at another table, if you don't feel safe going alone.2. Again, if a problem arises, you can get yourself out of there safely in your own car.
If you don't drive, create an alternate plan before you meet—bringing cab fare or arranging a ride.
The last place you want to be is in the car of someone you don't know.3. I like to talk to a guy at least 4 times before we plan to meet for the first time. Talking to someone on the phone is a whole lot different than emailing, texting or IMing someone.